The swinging lifestyle is very new to me. My boyfriend and I have been

The swinging lifestyle is very new to me. My boyfriend and I have been together over a year and a few months ago hementionedswinger dating to me for the first time. At first I can admit that it did not seem like a good idea at all, the thought of sharing my incredibly cute guy with other girls was totally crazy and I even got upset about it. As I thought about it and as he explained to me how swinger dating worked and how it did not mean we were seeing other people I began to rethink my position. He admitted that he would really like to do it and told me that he believed that our relationship might become stronger, for a healthy sex life is very important in a relationship and of course I wanted to make sure that he was happy and content. So I agreed and soon we were looking up swinger dating online and searching for other young couples who wanted to try it out with us.

We decided that we didn't want to do it with couples who had been taking part of the swinger dating lifestyle for some time, instead we looked for couples that were as new to it as we were. That made it more comfortable for both of us especially that very first time that we met the couple that we did it with for the first time. It was a bit awkward and when I was with the other guy and when he began to caress me it was weird and yes I was a bit jealous but after a little bit I began to relax and enjoy it. I reminded myself that we were doing this to have a good time and to add some zest to our relationship but that we were still together and in fact sharing in this experience together.

Since then we've only done it a few times and each time we enjoy it and then we come home together. We then spend a very hot weekreminiscingand telling each other how it went for us. It actually has helped out love life a lot, and now we have sex even moreoftenthan we did before. My boyfriend was right when he said that it would bring us together, we never see the couples that we swing with after so in the end all we have is each other and its working out great so far.