I have a suspicious feeling that the guy I have been dating for 2 mont

I have a suspicious feeling that the guy I have been dating for 2 months is gay. When we first met he seemed pretty normal but the more time I spend with him the more I am starting to see little things that don't quite add up. In the two months that we have been dating we have never had sex, there's been a few making out sessions and it seemed like all his organs were working okay, but when it gets really hot and heavy he always withdraws. I’ve never had a problemturninga guy on so that first time he stopped it hurt my feelings but I let it go. Now though it's been a few more times and I find it hard to believe that he has that much self control. So it's either that he is waiting for his true love to come along or that he's just not that into me and I really think it's because he'd rather have sex with another man.

Another weird thing about him is how much he loves fashion. One time he even cancelled one of our dates because he didn't want to miss an episode of Project Runway. Okay so maybe the fact that fashion is his passion is not a total giveaway but what about the fact that he wears eyeliner? When we began dating I loved that he does that, I thought it was very 80's and I liked showing him off. Now I realize thought that it's mostly guys that check him out and not girls. In fact when we go out dancing we eventually end up with a large crowd of guys hanging around us, with all their glittery eye shadow and spiky hairdos, and he loves that, loves being in the middle of all theseobviouslygay men.

So now I am at a bit of anawkward stage where I wonder if I should straight out ask him if he's gay or just stop dating him completely. Itwouldn'texactly tickle me to be known as the girl that is dating a gay boy who is still halfway in the closetso I wonder if I should help him exit it. I am all for being yourself and would rather he come out now than keep dating me to pretend to be straight. I don't know, this is truly a hard one and I wish he would be open enough to tell me himself. Maybe I'll wait a few weeks and if not I will ask him. I still want him in my life and don't want to lose his friendship.